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  • Awaiting Grace

    Awaiting Grace

    I had some deadlines I was trying to meet, and errands that needed taken care of. I was in a hurried state as I ran the errands, causing me to be impatient.

    As I was waiting in line to check out, I realized how much time we spend waiting. And, how we are typically in a hurry!

    We wait for Uber rides, phone calls, vacations, and doctor’s appointments. We wait in check out lines and for packages to arrive.

    Waiting for answers is a fact of life—nobody gets out of it. So the question is not if we will wait, but rather how we will wait. How we wait may also determine how long we wait or if we give up!

    My impatience because I was in a hurry caused me to put my things back and leave. Now I just have to make that trip to the store again! I gave up.

    As Christians, we also wait for…

    His birth.

    answered prayer.

    His death.

    His resurrection.

    His coming again.

    Our faith is often tested by waiting. Waiting on God, means that our life is under His authority and direction. If we move ahead without God’s direction, we live in a life of turmoil, anxiety and uncertainty.

    That anxiety leads to impatience. That impatience may lead to giving up. Giving up on His direction and plan.

    Waiting on God is not a passive state. It is an opportunity for growth, spiritual development, and active engagement in His plan. A plan where we focus on faith, trust, and obedience.

    We learn about God’s perfect timing and His ability to be in charge of every detail. We so often long for proof, but that is where faith comes in. Faith is believing and trusting in God, even without seeing and knowing.

    Hebrews 11:1 gives us the definition of Faith – “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.”

    Hebrews 11:6 says “And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to Him must believe that He exists and that He rewards those who earnestly seek Him.”

    In the Merriam Webster dictionary, the definition of waiting is, to remain stationary in readiness or expectation; to serve.

    So what do we do in the wait?

    Focus on the readiness of your spiritual development.

    Be in prayer – Seek God’s guidance, strength and wisdom during the wait. Ask Him to give you an open mind, a humble heart, and faithful feet. To know, accept, and walk where He is guiding you.

    Study His word – His word is truth. Allow His truth to shape your understanding and deepen you faith in the plan He is forming.

    Focus on how you can serve others.

    Serve and minister to those around you, showing compassion and love. You can do this by engaging and participating in church and/or community outreach.

    Be in the present moment. If you focus on the future, you are missing what God is needing from you now. Because if this is your life, if this is where you are at, then this is where God is too. Don’t waste time worrying about a future you have no control over.

    What is unknown to us, is not unknown to Him.

    Lent is a time for waiting. Waiting for his death. Waiting for Easter Sunday. The resurrection. The grace we receive because of His love for us.

    I pray for strength. Strength in our faith to trust in His plan. Be encouraged and take time to grow spiritually during this season.

    His gift of grace provides us His love, forgiveness, and acceptance even though we haven’t earned it. It’s a gift that can transform our lives and relationships. 

    It’s worth the wait!

    With love and joy,

    Laura

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  • How do you define Joy?

    How do you define Joy?

    There are times in life when my heart and soul feel heavy. A heaviness that I can’t seem to shake. A heaviness that seems to take away my joy at times.

    I know that JOY is a choice. So, how do I choose joy when everything around seems anything but joyful?

    My youngest sister Sara, was confined to the four walls of her home the last 3 years of her life. In spite of all she experienced with her health, she chose joy.

    When asked how she defined joy, she came up with this definition:

    The unwavering trust that God knows what He is doing and has blessed me with an opportunity to be a part of it. Not despite what is happening in my life, but because of it. When everything earthly feels heavy, He gives me an internal lightness that can’t be touched.

    I’d like to break it apart together.

    The unwavering trust that God knows what He is doing…

    Unwavering – When something is unwavering, it is firm. It is unshakable. My trust, my confidence, faith and hope in God must be firm. It can’t be shaken. When life throws me lemons, I can make lemonade. I must be firm in my faith that God knows what He is doing. I must believe it and trust it.

     Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. [Proverbs 3:5-6]

    …and has blessed me with with the opportunity to be part of it.

    The life I am living is a gift from God. It is a blessing. It is a set of circumstances that I can choose to see as a gift. I have a choice to see the circumstances in my life as a burden, or a blessing. I choose to focus on my circumstances as a gift whether positive or negative. This perspective allows me to see my life as an opportunity.

    Not despite what is happening in my life, but because of it.

    Despite is to see life as a blessing without the affect of what is happening in my life. Regardless of whether I am facing negative or positive in my life, I choose joy because of life itself. Because life is a gift.

    For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. [Psalm 139:13-14]

    When everything earthly feels heavy, He gives me an internal lightness that can’t be touched.

    My life is all about Him! It’s not about me. When I focus on God, I maintain a firm belief in His plan for me and my life. No matter my circumstances, I will find the joy that is down deep in my heart to stay.

    I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. [Galatians 2:20]

    Write out this definition of JOY. Put it in a place that is easy to access and read. Better yet, define what joy means to you!

    We are in a world that needs Him. God is love. He is always with us and never leaves us. He gives us that internal lightness that can’t be touched.

    With joy and love,

    Laura

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  • Limited Visibility

    Limited Visibility

    Moments in time.

    One BIG learning I have had in my life is to be intentional in savoring the little every day moments. There are moments that may not seem a big deal at the time. But, they become a big deal when they are gone.

    I learned this very quickly after losing my dad and sister. I realized that the things I missed the most were the things that I deemed little. They were even irritating at times.

    An example for me were the “dad joke’s” we’ve all experienced. Those jokes that we roll our eyes at and laugh a bit out of respect. Well, I would give anything to hear one of dad’s jokes again!

    I had the joy of spending this past week with my 1 and 3 year old grandchildren. I quickly realized that I had forgotten what it was like to get very little sleep! I also forgot that any plans I make might as well be dismissed. The kids’ plans take precedence.

    I don’t know about you, but I catch myself when I am in one moment, wishing for another. Instead of savoring the moments I am blessed with, I waste them wanting something different. When I do that, I am not appreciating the blessings God is giving to me.

    Moments are just that. Moments. Once they happen, they are gone. The moment is gone, but the memory of that moment lasts a life time. I want to be intentional in savoring every moment I have with those I love. I want to make special and joy filled memories for those I love to treasure for a lifetime.

    My eyes, no matter how clear and focused on Christ, are cloudy compared to His.

    I can’t see the beauty God is creating beyond what is right in front of me. I can’t see how He takes something that seems fearful, sad, or unjust, and shines His light in and through to redeem it into beauty.

    I can’t see ahead into the unknown and I have to remember that none of it is unknown to Him. 

    My job is to savor my moments.

    In my limited vision, at the age of 66, dad was taken away too soon. I trust that God has the vision to see where true beauty lies. I have faith and hope that He takes those times of hurt and sadness and shines His light in and through them to redeem their beauty. I choose to look for the beauty.

    He has the perspective. We have the life we are given by our circumstances. And if we trust Him, really trust Him, I believe He will always make sure there is beauty beyond our limited vision.

    And I will always praise Him for that.

    I am grateful for savoring many of the moments I had with my dad. The trips with him in the semi. The rides on the tractor when he was in the field. The days I was able to follow him around the farm and learn many life lessons. The calls I would receive from him when he was in the field. There are so many memories I savor.

    I want to create those same treasured moments for my children and grandchildren. I want to continue to create those treasured moments for me.

    I savor those moments and realize now more than ever the importance of those moments in my life. It’s those moments that I can turn to and fill my heart with joy.

    Be intentional in savoring the little everyday moments!

    With love and joy,

    Laura

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  • Responsible To Each Other

    Responsible To Each Other

    With Valentine’s day last week, there was a lot of focus on LOVE. Our focus on this day of love is typically on those we are close to. Those we love because of the relationship we have with them.

    But, God asks us to go even deeper. God tells us the greatest commandment is to Love.

    A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another. [John 13:34-35]

    He is not asking us to only love those who we consider easy to love. He is asking us to love all His children. Humph! That is a big ask.

    If you are a fan of peanuts, this quote features Linus telling Lucy about his aspirations to be a doctor. Of course, as only Lucy can do, she undercuts his aspiration. But, this time Linus gets the last word in. Linus loves humans as a race, but he detests certain individuals.

    I do believe we all come to this earth being good at heart. We are made in the image and likeness of God.

    I also believe that life happens and circumstances can change us. We also have teachers along the way. Teachers who take us aside and show us compassion when we mess up. They help direct us on better paths.

    I began wondering about the number of people I’ve had contact with in my life. People who were looking to me to teach them. In my own business or selfishness, I didn’t take the opportunity to help guide them.

    I have had times when I have reached out and tried to minister to others. It can feel defeating when they make a choice to not seek God. When I feel like I am not making a difference, I doubt myself and want to give up.

    What God reminded me, is that:

    “We are not responsible for each other, but we are responsible to each other.”

    I am not responsible for the choices others make. I am responsible to love them enough to disciple to them. Once I I do my job, it’s the Holy Spirit’s job to work in them.

    I need to be intentional about being present in the moment. This way, I don’t miss the opportunities God puts in front of me.

    “Even though we think of our goals as some future state to achieve, the real goal is always the life in this moment, this moment, this moment. ~Charlotte Beck

    I don’t want to miss an opportunity of fulfilling a purpose God has for me in my life. An opportunity to love others as He loves me. I may miss that opportunity if I am not fully present in the moment with others.

    How many of you have said … oh, I’ll wait and call them tomorrow. Maybe next month we can go see them.

    Whatever it is, when our focus is living until (fill in the blank), we aren’t really living. The until may never come and then we stop living all together. We have missed the opportunity God has called us to.

    So, seize the moment you are in. You are in that moment for a purpose. A purpose God has called you to.

    I know I don’t want anyone to pass through my life. I don’t want someone to later ask, “Who forgot to teach them?”

    I challenge you to do the same.

    With love and joy,

    Laura

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  • Reckless Faith

    Reckless Faith

    “I love the recklessness of Faith. First you leap and then you grow wings.”


    The above canvas was made by my sister, Sara. I was reflecting on this Sloane Coffin’s quote and the word recklessness stood out to me.

    Webster defines recklessness as being “utterly unconcerned about the consequences of some action; without caution; careless.”

    Loving recklessness or unconcern for consequences is probably not the first thing I would jump up and say…yep that’s me!

    I tend to be someone who likes to make sure I am following the rules. I typically have things planned out. My mind is always analyzing the consequences of decisions that I have in front of me. I want to make sure I am doing the right thing for the right reason. Thinking about who may be affected and how.

    In my leadership training and development role, I trained leaders using several books. One of these was “First Break All the Rules” by Marcus Buckingham. It became one of my favorite leadership teachings.

    The rule follower’s favorite book, First Break all the Rules. Yep, that makes a lot of sense. NOT!

    Initially that is a fair assumption, but let me give you my reasons.

    Traditional management is a hierarchical style of management that emphasizes efficiency and control. It’s characterized by a clear chain of command, well-defined roles, and a focus on following rules and procedures. This book encourages leaders to break the rules on traditional management.

    It encourages us to change our old thinking to a new way. This new way encourages leaders to focus on individual talents and strengths. God has provided us with unique talents. Instead of trying to put in what God left out, try drawing out what God left in!

    There are several other great tips in the book, but I’ll leave that for your reading. :) I want to try and encourage a new way of thinking about faith.

    When I think about recklessness in terms of faith, it makes sense to me. There were numerous times in the bible that Jesus asked others to leave everything behind and follow Him. Think about that…how many of us, not knowing much about someone, would take that kind of leap of faith?

    “As Jesus walked beside the Sea of Galilee, he saw Simon and his brother Andrew casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. “Come, follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will send you out to fish for people.” At once they left their nets and followed him. When he had gone a little farther, he saw James son of Zebedee and his brother John in a boat, preparing their nets. Without delay he called them, and they left their father Zebedee in the boat with the hired men and followed him.” ~Mark 1:16-20 (NIV)

    The disciples didn’t plan out what following Jesus would look like for them. They didn’t tell Him…wait…let me think this through! They took a leap of faith, trusted Him and grew wings along the journey.

    It requires us to trust in His upside down thinking. Not worldly thinking, but Jesus thinking.

    Jesus’ upside-down thinking involves identifying with the poor and oppressed. It also values those who are looked down upon in the world. God’s kingdom is different from the world’s kingdom. Those who are valued by God are not necessarily those who are valued by the world. 

    Taking a leap of faith requires us to be brave, to trust with all of our hearts. He calls to surrender our lives to Him, trusting He will help us grow and flourish as His faithful servants.

    At once they left…Without delay…they followed Him.

    I pray that I can live a reckless kind of faith. One that I will surrender all of my life to Him. I will take the leap He is asking me to take. I trust that He will provide me the wings I need to fly. I will soar in this life for Him.

    With love and joy,

    Laura

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