Category: Story

  • When Life Feels Like a Puzzle

    When Life Feels Like a Puzzle

    Have you ever dumped a puzzle out onto a table and wondered how all those random pieces could possibly fit together?

    At first, the pieces seem disconnected. Some are upside down. Some appear insignificant. Others look like they belong somewhere else entirely. Yet the person assembling the puzzle trusts that every piece has a purpose because they have seen the picture on the box.

    Life often feels the same way.

    There are seasons when we can only see a handful of pieces. We see the heartbreak, the disappointment, the unanswered prayer, the unexpected detour, or the dream that didn’t unfold the way we hoped. Looking at those individual moments, it is difficult to understand what God is doing.

    But God sees the finished picture.

    What feels random to us is not random to Him. What appears broken is not beyond His ability to restore. What seems out of place is often exactly where it belongs in His greater plan.

    Romans 8:28 reminds us:

    “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”

    Notice that Scripture does not say all things are good. It says God works through all things for good. Every piece matters.

    Some puzzle pieces are beautiful. They represent blessings, victories, answered prayers, and joyful moments. We gladly place those pieces into the picture.

    Other pieces are harder to accept. They represent grief, illness, loss, disappointment, and waiting. We may wish we could leave those pieces out altogether. Yet often those difficult pieces become the very places where God’s faithfulness shines brightest.

    If you’ve ever worked on a puzzle, you know that the edge pieces usually come first. They create a framework that helps everything else come together. In the same way, God’s Word provides the framework for our lives. When circumstances confuse us, His promises help us understand where the pieces belong.

    The truth is, we were never meant to assemble the puzzle alone.

    God is the Master Designer. He knows exactly where each piece fits. He knows why certain pieces arrived when they did. He knows why some pieces seem delayed. He knows how today’s confusion will connect to tomorrow’s purpose.

    Our responsibility is not to see the entire picture. Our responsibility is to trust the One who does.

    Maybe today you’re holding a piece of the puzzle that makes no sense. Perhaps you’re facing a situation that feels unfinished or unresolved. Remember that one piece is not the whole picture.

    Don’t judge God’s plan by the piece you’re holding today.

    Trust that the Author of your story is still working. Trust that He is placing each piece exactly where it belongs. Trust that one day you will look back and see how His grace, wisdom, and faithfulness were present all along.

    The puzzle isn’t finished yet.

    And that’s okay.

    God is still putting the pieces together.

    What piece of your life are you struggling to understand right now, and how can you choose to trust God with the bigger picture?

    Proverbs 3:5-6 — “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”

    With love and joy,

    Laura

  • Stop Counting

    Stop Counting

    “Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the Lord our God.” — Psalm 20:7

    We count everything.

    Calories. Followers. Dollars. Wrinkles. Accomplishments. Failures. Likes on social media. How many people showed up. How many people noticed. How many people didn’t.

    We count what everyone else has and quietly compare it to what we don’t.

    And before we know it, our worth becomes attached to numbers.

    But God never asked us to count those things.

    He asked us to count on Him.

    Psalm 20:7 says, “Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the Lord our God.” In Biblical times, chariots and horses represented strength, power, security, and status. Today, our “chariots” may simply look different. We trust in followers, appearance, income, achievements, relationships, recognition, or the approval of others to make us feel valuable.

    Yet none of those things can truly hold the weight of our identity.

    The world teaches us that more is better. More attention. More influence. More success. More applause. Yet the more we chase those things, the more empty we often feel. Because the human heart was never designed to be filled by comparison. It was designed to be filled by Christ.

    Comparison is exhausting because there will always be someone with more. More beauty. More money. More opportunities. More followers. More recognition. If we live by counting what we lack, we will always feel like we are behind.

    But God’s Kingdom works differently.

    Jesus never measured people by popularity, status, or possessions. He looked at hearts. He valued faithfulness over fame. Obedience over attention. Surrender over success.

    The disciples probably didn’t look impressive by the world’s standards. Moses felt inadequate. David was overlooked. Ruth was a widow. Paul carried weakness. Yet God used each one powerfully because they stopped focusing on what they didn’t have and started trusting the One who had everything they needed.

    Maybe that’s where peace begins too.

    Not in finally getting enough.
    But in realizing God already is enough.

    What if we stopped counting likes and started counting blessings?

    What if we stopped counting flaws and started remembering grace?

    What if we stopped counting how far behind we feel and started counting on the God who never leaves us?

    Because the truth is, when we constantly compare ourselves to others, we lose sight of the unique story God is writing in us. Someone else’s success does not diminish your value. Someone else’s calling does not cancel your purpose.

    God is not asking you to become someone else.

    He is asking you to trust Him with who you already are.

    The enemy loves distraction through comparison because comparison keeps our eyes horizontally focused on people instead of vertically focused on God. Peter learned this when he walked on water. As long as his eyes were on Jesus, he stayed above the waves. The moment he focused on everything around him, fear took over.

    The same is true for us.

    We sink when we focus on everyone else’s life instead of God’s faithfulness in our own.

    Social media can become dangerous when it quietly convinces us that everyone else is happier, prettier, more successful, more spiritual, or more loved. But remember, people usually post highlights, not struggles. We compare our behind-the-scenes to someone else’s carefully edited moments.

    God never intended for us to live chained to comparison.

    Galatians 6:4 says, “Pay careful attention to your own work…without comparing yourself to someone else.”

    That verse is freedom.

    Freedom to stop performing.
    Freedom to stop competing.
    Freedom to stop striving for approval that only God can truly satisfy.

    At the end of the day, God will never ask how many followers you had. He will ask if you followed Him.

    He will not ask if everyone applauded you. He will ask if you trusted Him.

    He will not ask if you measured up to others. He will ask if you loved Him and loved people well.

    So maybe today is the day to stop counting all the wrong things.

    Stop counting what you lack.
    Stop counting failures.
    Stop counting likes.
    Stop counting how you compare.

    And instead, count on God.

    Because when God is enough, you no longer need the world to tell you that you are.

    With love and joy,

    Laura

  • Dancing in Step: Learning to Lead, Learning to Follow

    Dancing in Step: Learning to Lead, Learning to Follow

    I grew up in a family that loved to dance. There was something beautiful about watching the rhythm, the movement, and the connection between two people moving as one. But even as a child, I learned something important—something that went far beyond the dance floor.

    In every dance, someone has to lead, and someone has to follow.

    The leader’s role is to guide—to stay in rhythm with the music, to anticipate the next step, and to gently signal where the dance is going. The follower’s role is just as important—to trust, to respond, and to move in harmony with the one leading. When both honor their roles, the result is something graceful, unified, and full of life.

    Isn’t that a lot like life?

    There are seasons when we are called to lead—to step forward with confidence, to guide others, to make decisions, and to carry responsibility. And there are seasons when we are called to follow—to trust, to listen, and to yield. Both roles require humility. Both require awareness. And both require love.

    But here’s where it becomes deeply spiritual.

    When we follow well, we honor the one who is leading.

    Scripture reminds us in Romans 12:10, “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Honor is not just about words—it’s about posture. It’s about how we position our hearts toward others. In marriage, in friendships, in leadership, and most importantly, in our relationship with God.

    In a marriage, there is a sacred dance. There are moments when one leads, and the other follows, and when done in love and mutual respect, it reflects God’s design for unity. Honoring your spouse doesn’t mean losing your voice—it means valuing their role, trusting their heart, and moving together in rhythm rather than stepping on each other’s toes.

    And then there is our relationship with God—the ultimate dance.

    God is the perfect leader. He never misses a step. He never falls out of rhythm. He sees the entire dance from beginning to end. And yet, how often do we try to take the lead? How often do we rush ahead, resist His guidance, or ignore His gentle cues?

    Following God requires trust. It requires surrender. It requires us to listen closely for His voice and respond with obedience—even when we don’t fully understand the next step.

    Psalm 32:8 says, “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.” What a beautiful picture of a loving Leader—one who not only directs but watches over us with care.

    When we choose to follow Him, we honor Him.

    And when we honor Him, our lives begin to move in rhythm with His purpose.

    So maybe today is an invitation.

    An invitation to pause and ask:

    • Am I trying to lead when God is asking me to follow?
    • Am I honoring those God has placed in my life?
    • Am I moving in step with His rhythm—or creating my own?

    The beauty of the dance is not in perfection—it’s in connection.

    When we trust the Leader, when we embrace our role, and when we move with humility and love, our lives become a reflection of something greater… something divine.

    So take His hand.

    Listen for His cues.

    And step into the dance.

    With love and joy,

    Laura

  • By Grace Alone: The Power of Abiding

    By Grace Alone: The Power of Abiding

    My sister Sara had this By Grace Alone necklace, pictured above, and she also gifted me one. Grace is the power of God to do for us what we cannot do for ourselves.

    She wanted us both to remember that when life feels out of control, we shouldn’t try to control it. We should surrender it to God, who is in control.

    What I have found is that the harder I try to control a situation, the more anxiety and fear control me. But when I let go and let God control the outcomes, I feel His perfect peace.

    If grace is the foundation of our faith, then abiding is the way we live it out.

    When Jesus says in John 15:5, “…without Me you can do nothing,” He doesn’t leave us there in helplessness—He immediately invites us into something deeper: “Abide in Me, and I in you.” This is not a command rooted in pressure, but an invitation rooted in relationship.

    To abide means to remain, to stay, to dwell.

    It’s not a striving word—it’s a staying word.

    So often, we approach our walk with God like a performance. We try harder, do more, fix ourselves, prove our devotion. But abiding shifts the focus entirely. It calls us away from self-effort and into constant connection.

    Think about a branch on a vine. The branch doesn’t strain to produce fruit. It doesn’t wake up each day determined to be more fruitful. It simply stays connected. Everything it needs flows from the vine—nutrients, strength, life itself.

    Jesus is reminding us: You are the branch. I am the source.

    Abiding is choosing connection over control.

    It looks like:

    • Turning your thoughts back to God throughout the day
    • Sitting with His Word, not just to check a box, but to hear His voice
    • Praying honestly, not perfectly
    • Surrendering your worries instead of trying to manage everything on your own
    • Trusting Him in the in-between, not just in the breakthrough

    Abiding is less about a moment and more about a posture.

    It’s waking up aware that you need Him.
    It’s walking through your day dependent on Him.
    It’s ending your day resting in Him.

    And here’s the beautiful truth: abiding is where grace becomes tangible.

    When you abide, you begin to experience the very power of God working in you—doing what you could never do on your own. That patience you didn’t have? It grows. That peace that made no sense? It settles in. That strength when you felt weak? It shows up.

    Not because you manufactured it—but because you remained connected to the One who supplies it.

    Abiding also means trusting that God is at work even when you don’t feel it.

    A branch doesn’t see the inner workings of the vine, but growth is still happening. In the same way, there are seasons where God feels quiet, distant, or unseen. But abiding says, “I will stay anyway. I will trust that You are still moving, still shaping, still providing.”

    This is where many people struggle—not in starting with God, but in staying with Him.

    But abiding is not about perfection; it’s about returning.

    Every time your mind wanders—come back.
    Every time you feel distant—draw near again.
    Every time you try to take control—release it back to Him.

    Grace makes abiding possible, and abiding keeps us positioned to receive grace.

    So instead of asking, “What more do I need to do?”
    Maybe the better question is, “Where do I need to stay?”

    Stay connected.
    Stay surrendered.
    Stay aware of His presence.

    Because by grace alone, you are sustained—and through abiding, you experience it every single day.

    With love and joy,

    Laura

  • My Truth vs. God’s Truth

    My Truth vs. God’s Truth

    Who Is Writing Your Story?

    In today’s culture, we hear the phrase “my truth” everywhere. It’s often used as a way to validate personal experiences, emotions, and perspectives. While our experiences matter, there’s a deeper question we must ask as believers: Is my truth aligned with God’s truth?

    Because there is a difference.

    “My truth” is often shaped by our experiences. Our wounds, disappointments, and insecurities influence it. It is also shaped by the lies we’ve unknowingly agreed with. Over time, those lies can become so familiar that they begin to feel like truth. Thoughts like “I’m not enough,” “I’ll never change,” “This is just who I am,” can quietly take root. They begin to define the story we believe about our lives.

    But just because something feels true doesn’t mean it is true.

    God’s truth is not based on our circumstances or emotions—it is anchored in His unchanging Word. And His Word tells a different story. It speaks of identity, purpose, redemption, and freedom. Jesus said in John 8:32,

    “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

    Freedom comes not from embracing “my truth,” but from surrendering to His truth.

    The danger of living by “my truth” is that it can keep us stuck. If the narrative we believe is rooted in fear, shame, or defeat, then our decisions will follow that same pattern. We will unknowingly build a life around a false foundation.

    If you believe you are unworthy, you’ll shrink back from opportunities God is calling you into.

    If you believe you are broken beyond repair, you’ll resist the healing God is offering.

    If you believe your past defines you, you’ll struggle to step into your future.

    When we are stuck in the lies of our story, we cannot fully walk in God’s purpose for our lives.

    Here’s a powerful truth: Someone is always shaping the narrative of your life.

    The enemy wants to be the editor of your story. They highlight your failures. They replay your mistakes. They whisper lies that keep you bound.

    But God…

    God is the true Author and Editor of your life. He doesn’t erase your story—He redeems it. He takes every broken chapter and rewrites it with purpose, grace, and hope.

    You were never meant to live a life edited by fear.
    You were created to live a life authored by truth.

    There is a tension between two truths.

    There is a real tension we all experience:

    • What I feel vs. what I know
    • What I was vs. what I am becoming
    • What I see vs. what God says

    Feelings are real, but they are not always reliable. Faith grows in the space between those tensions. It’s in choosing to believe God’s truth even when it contradicts what we feel in the moment.

    Faith says:
    “I may feel anxious, but God says I have peace.”
    “I may feel unqualified, but God says I am chosen.”
    “I may remember who I was, but God is showing me who I am becoming.”

    This tension isn’t something to avoid—it’s where transformation happens.

    Choosing God’s truth is a daily decision. It means renewing your mind, aligning your thoughts with His Word, and rejecting the lies that try to take root.

    It looks like:

    • Speaking Scripture over your life instead of rehearsing negative thoughts
    • Pausing to ask, “Is this what God says about me?”
    • Letting truth reshape your identity, not your past

    God’s truth leads to freedom. It leads to clarity. It leads to purpose.

    You don’t have to stay stuck in a story that was never meant to define you.

    The truth of God is greater than any lie you’ve believed.
    His voice is louder than the enemy’s whispers—if you choose to listen.
    And His plans for you are still unfolding, no matter where you’ve been.

    So today, ask yourself:

    Whose truth am I living by?
    And who is holding the pen to my story?

    Let God be the editor of your life.
    Let His truth rewrite your narrative.
    Because when you walk in His truth—that’s where freedom begins.

    With love and joy,

    Laura