Category: prayer

  • Invite Others Along

    Invite Others Along

    Joy Was Never Meant to Stop With You

    “The next day Jesus decided to leave for Galilee. Finding Philip, he said to him, ‘Follow me.’ … Philip found Nathanael and told him, ‘We have found the one Moses wrote about in the Law… Jesus of Nazareth.’ ‘Nazareth! Can anything good come from there?’ Nathanael asked. ‘Come and see,’ said Philip.” — John 1:43–46

    Over the past five weeks, we’ve been on an incredible journey together.

    We began by learning to seek Jesus with our whole hearts. We discovered that when we intentionally pursue Him, He faithfully reveals Himself.

    Next, we learned to follow faithfully—taking the next step of obedience even when we couldn’t see the entire path.

    Then we talked about what it means to abide deeply. Not simply visiting Jesus when life becomes difficult, but remaining with Him every day, allowing Him to shape our thoughts, our decisions, and our hearts.

    Last week, we celebrated the beautiful fruit of that relationship—experiencing joy. Not happiness based on our circumstances, but the unwavering confidence that Christ is with us no matter what life brings.

    Now we arrive at the final step.

    Perhaps the most important one.

    Invite others along.

    Because joy was never meant to stop with us.

    Faith Was Always Meant to Be Shared.

    One of my favorite passages in Scripture is found in John chapter one.

    Philip had just encountered Jesus.

    He didn’t attend seminary.

    He didn’t have years of Bible study under his belt.

    He couldn’t answer every theological question.

    What did he do?

    He found his friend Nathanael and simply said,

    “Come and see.”

    Those three words have always challenged me.

    Philip didn’t argue.

    He didn’t pressure.

    He didn’t pretend to know everything.

    He simply invited someone else to experience what had changed his own life.

    Sometimes we make sharing our faith much more complicated than Jesus ever intended.

    We convince ourselves that we need all the answers before we can tell someone about Him.

    But maybe God isn’t asking us to have every answer.

    Maybe He’s simply asking us to extend an invitation.

    You Already Have a Story.

    One of the enemy’s greatest lies is this:

    “You’re not qualified.”

    Maybe you’ve thought:

    • I don’t know enough Scripture.
    • My past disqualifies me.
    • I’m not a speaker.
    • Someone else could explain it better.
    • What if they ask me something I can’t answer?

    Friend, none of those things stopped Philip.

    None of those things stop Jesus from using ordinary people.

    Your story matters because it’s your story.

    No one can argue with what Christ has done in your life.

    You don’t have to tell someone everything about Jesus.

    You simply have to tell them what He’s done for you.

    The Most Powerful Invitations Are Often the Simplest.

    Inviting others along doesn’t always look like standing behind a pulpit.

    Sometimes it looks like saying:

    “Can I pray for you?”

    “Would you like to come to church with me?”

    “I’m reading something that’s encouraging me. Would you like to read it together?”

    “Let’s grab coffee.”

    “How are you… really?”

    “You don’t have to walk through this alone.”

    Those simple invitations have eternal impact.

    Many of us can trace our faith journey back to someone who simply cared enough to invite us.

    A parent.

    A grandparent.

    A Sunday School teacher.

    A neighbor.

    A friend.

    Someone left room at their table for us.

    Now it’s our turn to leave room for someone else.

    An Empty Chair.

    I love the image of a porch.

    Porches invite people to slow down.

    To talk.

    To laugh.

    To rest.

    To belong.

    There’s often one more chair waiting for a guest.

    I wonder if our lives could look more like that porch.

    Not closed off.

    Not hurried.

    Not so full that no one else can enter.

    Just one more chair.

    One more conversation.

    One more prayer.

    One more invitation.

    One more person discovering that God deeply loves them.

    Imagine what could happen if each of us asked the Lord to show us who belongs in that empty chair this week.

    Not to fix them.

    Not to rescue them.

    Simply to walk beside them as we both follow Jesus.

    The Adventure Continues…

    As we close this series, I hope you realize something.

    This was never about completing five weeks of reading.

    It was about becoming people who seek Jesus daily, follow Him faithfully, abide deeply in His presence, experience His joy, and then invite others to experience the same.

    That’s the rhythm of the Christian life.

    And that’s the heartbeat of Choose Joy Adventure.

    Because adventures are always better when we travel together.

    So today, ask God one simple question:

    Who are You inviting me to invite?

    Maybe it’s a family member.

    A coworker.

    A neighbor.

    A friend who’s quietly struggling.

    Or maybe it’s someone you’ve been thinking about for weeks, but fear has kept you silent.

    Don’t wait until you feel perfectly prepared.

    Philip didn’t.

    Simply say:

    “Come and see.”

    And perhaps those three words will become the beginning of someone else’s greatest adventure.

    This Week’s Challenge…

    Before next Monday, ask God to place one person on your heart.

    Pray for them every day.

    Encourage them in a tangible way.

    Invite them to coffee, church, Bible study, or simply into a conversation.

    You don’t have to have all the answers.

    You only have to be willing to leave one more chair at your table.

    Because someone is waiting for an invitation.

    And Jesus is still changing lives, one “Come and see” at a time.

    With love and joy,

    Laura

  • Experience Joy: The Fruit of Trust

    Experience Joy: The Fruit of Trust

    “These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.” — John 15:11

    We’ve spent the last several weeks walking through three simple invitations:

    Seek Jesus.

    Follow Faithfully.

    Abide Deeply.

    Each one is a step closer to the heart of Christ.

    But what happens when we seek Him? When we faithfully follow His leading? When we remain close to Him day after day?

    We begin to experience something the world cannot explain.

    We experience joy.

    Not the kind of joy that depends on circumstances.

    Not the kind that disappears when life gets hard.

    Not happiness that comes and goes with good news or difficult days.

    The joy Jesus offers is something much deeper.

    My sister, Sara Frankl, understood this kind of joy perhaps better than anyone I’ve known. Though she lived with unimaginable physical suffering, she once wrote these words as her personal definition of Joy that continue to challenge and encourage me:

    “The unwavering trust that God knows what He is doing and blessed me with the opportunity to be part of it. Not despite what is happening in my life, but because of it. When everything earthly feels heavy, He gives me an internal lightness that can’t be touched.”

    What a beautiful definition.

    Notice that Sara never says joy is pretending life isn’t hard.

    She doesn’t ignore the heaviness.

    She acknowledges it.

    “When everything earthly feels heavy…”

    She knew heavy days.

    She knew unanswered prayers.

    She knew physical pain.

    She knew disappointment.

    Yet she also knew something greater.

    She knew the One who carried her through every moment.

    I’ve often said that joy is a focus, not a feeling.

    The more I think about it, the more I realize joy is also the fruit of trust.

    When I trust that God is who He says He is…

    When I trust His timing…

    When I trust His wisdom…

    When I trust that He is writing a story greater than I can see…

    Joy begins to grow, even when my circumstances don’t change.

    That doesn’t mean we always feel joyful.

    There were days during my cancer journey when I didn’t feel joyful.

    There are still days when life feels heavy. When tears spill over.

    But joy was never dependent on how I felt.

    Joy came from knowing that Christ was walking with me.

    Jesus told His disciples in John 15 to abide in Him, just as branches remain connected to the vine. Then He immediately spoke about joy.

    That isn’t an accident.

    Joy isn’t something we strive to produce.

    Joy is the natural fruit of remaining connected to Jesus.

    The closer we stay to Him, the more His joy becomes our strength.

    So perhaps today the question isn’t, “How can I be happier?”

    Perhaps the better question is, “Where is my trust?”

    Because wherever trust in Christ grows deeper, joy follows.

    Not because life suddenly becomes easy.

    But because Jesus is enough.

    No matter what adventure lies ahead.


    This Week’s Challenge

    Instead of asking God to remove every difficult circumstance, ask Him to deepen your trust.

    Watch for moments where He reminds you that He is present, faithful, and working—even when you cannot yet see the whole picture.

    You may discover what Sara discovered years ago:

    That even when everything around you feels heavy, Christ can give you an internal lightness that nothing on earth can touch.

    Choose Joy.

    Not because life is easy.

    But because Jesus is faithful.


    Reflection

    • Where is God inviting you to trust Him more deeply today?
    • What circumstance have you been measuring by your feelings instead of His faithfulness?
    • How might abiding in Christ change your perspective this week?

    May we continue to seek Him, follow Him, abide in Him…

    …and discover the joy that only He can give.

    With love and joy,

    Laura

  • Seek. Follow. Abide.

    Seek. Follow. Abide.

    Part 3 – Abide – Stay With Me

    “Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself unless it abides in the vine, neither can you unless you abide in Me.” — John 15:4

    For the past two weeks, we’ve been walking together through one invitation from Jesus.

    First, we asked ourselves:

    What am I seeking?

    Then we asked:

    Will I follow where He leads?

    Now Jesus offers one final invitation—one that may be the most life-changing of all.

    Will you stay with Me?

    The word abide isn’t one we use very often. Depending on your Bible translation, it may also be translated as remain, continue, or simply stay.

    I love that word.

    Stay.

    There is something comforting about it. Something peaceful. Something deeply personal.

    Jesus isn’t inviting us into a destination. He’s inviting us into His presence.

    Our world loves movement.

    We celebrate promotions.

    New homes.

    New ministries.

    New adventures.

    Even in the church, we often applaud those who take bold steps of faith. We tell stories about missionaries who crossed oceans, believers who left successful careers to answer God’s call, and ordinary people who courageously stepped into the unknown.

    And we should.

    Those stories remind us that God still calls people to go.

    But I wonder…

    Do we celebrate the people who stay?

    The mother who faithfully loves her family every day.

    The caregiver who quietly serves without recognition.

    The believer who keeps praying long after others have given up.

    The friend who faithfully walks beside someone through a painful season.

    The person who continues to trust God even when nothing seems to be changing.

    Sometimes staying requires just as much faith as going.

    Sometimes it requires even more

    If we’re honest, many of us spend more time living in tomorrow than we do trusting God today.

    We wonder…

    What if this never changes?

    What if I fail?

    What if things get harder?

    Before we know it, we’ve carried tomorrow’s burdens into today’s heart.

    But Jesus gently calls us back.

    Stay with Me today.

    Stay another hour.

    Stay another day.

    God has never asked us to carry a lifetime of grace all at once. He gives us today’s grace for today’s needs.

    When tomorrow arrives, His grace will be there too.

    One of the things I love most about Jesus is that He never seemed to be in a hurry.

    He stayed long enough to heal those who came to Him.

    He stayed at a wedding and turned ordinary water into extraordinary wine.

    He stayed with children while others tried to send them away.

    He stayed with those society overlooked.

    He stayed long enough to forgive those who believed they had gone too far.

    He wasn’t rushing through life.

    He was fully present with every person the Father placed before Him.

    Love is never in a hurry.

    Neither is Jesus.

    One story has always challenged me.

    When Lazarus became sick, Mary and Martha sent word to Jesus.

    Surely He would come immediately.

    Instead, Scripture tells us that after hearing the news, Jesus remained where He was for two more days.

    To Mary and Martha, it must have felt like silence.

    Like delay.

    Like disappointment.

    But Jesus wasn’t absent.

    He wasn’t indifferent.

    He was trusting the Father’s perfect timing.

    Sometimes abiding means trusting God when we don’t understand His timing.

    Sometimes faith isn’t believing that God will hurry.

    It’s believing that He is never late.

    Jesus said,

    “I am the vine; you are the branches.”

    Branches don’t strain to produce fruit.

    They don’t anxiously compare themselves to other branches.

    They don’t worry about whether they’re doing enough.

    They simply stay connected to the vine.

    The life of the vine flows through the branch.

    The fruit is the natural result of the relationship.

    How often do we exhaust ourselves trying to produce what only Jesus can grow?

    Our culture tells us to try harder.

    Jesus tells us to stay closer.

    What a beautiful invitation.

    Over these past three weeks we’ve talked about seeking Jesus, following His call, and now abiding in His presence.

    I’ve come to realize something.

    Where you go isn’t nearly as important as where you stay.

    You may travel across the world or remain in your hometown.

    You may stand before thousands or quietly serve one person.

    You may be in a season of great joy or one of deep sorrow.

    Wherever life takes you, never leave the place where your soul finds life.

    Stay with Jesus.

    Remain in His Word.

    Rest in His love.

    Trust His timing.

    Walk closely with Him.

    Because the greatest adventure isn’t found in the places you’ll go.

    It’s found in the Savior you’ll never outgrow.

    Three weeks ago, we began with a question:

    What are you seeking?

    Then we learned that following Jesus often means trusting Him one obedient step at a time.

    Today we’ve discovered that the deepest joy isn’t found in reaching the destination.

    It’s found in remaining with Christ.

    We began by seeking Him.

    We learned to follow Him.

    Now let us abide in Him.

    Because joy isn’t found in the destination.

    Joy is found in the presence of Jesus.

    Prayer

    Lord, thank You for inviting me into a relationship with You. Teach me not to chase the next thing so quickly that I miss Your presence today. When life is uncertain, help me stay. When I am tempted to run, remind me that my strength comes from remaining connected to You. Grow in me the fruit that only Your Spirit can produce, and help me find my greatest joy in simply abiding with You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.


    This Week’s Invitation

    Don’t rush to tomorrow.

    Don’t strive for what only Jesus can produce.

    Simply…

    Abide in Him.

    With love and joy,

    Laura

  • Seek. Follow. Abide.

    Seek. Follow. Abide.

    Part 2 – Who are you following?

    Have you ever wished God would simply hand you a map?

    Show me where we’re going, Lord. Tell me what’s around the next corner. Let me know how this story turns out—and then I’ll follow.

    I know I’ve felt that way.

    But I’m learning that God doesn’t always give us a map.

    He gives us something better.

    He gives us Himself.

    Jesus doesn’t stand at the beginning of the road and point us toward the destination. He walks with us and says, “Follow Me.”

    “Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying: ‘Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?’ And I said: ‘Here am I. Send me.’”

    — Isaiah 6:8

    Last week, we talked about seeking God. Seeking is where the journey begins. We seek Him in His Word, in prayer, and in the quiet places of our hearts. But seeking is never meant to be the destination. Seeking is meant to lead us somewhere.

    It leads us to a question.

    Will you follow?

    If I’m honest, I think many of us love the idea of following Jesus more than we love the reality of it. Following sounds exciting when we imagine grand adventures of faith and dramatic moments of obedience. But most of the time, following Jesus looks much simpler—and much harder—than we expect.

    Following is found in the ordinary.

    It’s saying yes when no one else notices. It’s trusting God when the next step isn’t clear. It’s remaining faithful in the season you’re in instead of longing for someone else’s calling or assignment.

    Some of us are waiting for God to reveal His five-year plan when He’s simply asking us to take one faithful step today.

    We often ask God questions like:

    • What’s my purpose?
    • What am I supposed to do next?
    • Am I missing God’s will for my life?

    Perhaps a better question is this:

    Am I willing to follow Him wherever He leads?

    Before Isaiah ever said, “Send me,” he first encountered the holiness and presence of God. His willingness to go flowed from his relationship with God. The same is true for us. Following Jesus isn’t about accomplishing great things for God—it’s about walking closely enough with Him that we recognize His voice and willingly respond.

    Sometimes following means stepping forward into something new.

    Sometimes it means staying right where you are and being faithful.

    Sometimes it means letting go of something you’ve held tightly for years.

    Sometimes it means quietly serving without recognition.

    Sometimes it means beginning again at sixty.

    I’ve learned that obedience doesn’t always feel exciting. There have been seasons in my own life when following Jesus meant walking through cancer treatments, trusting Him when I couldn’t see what was ahead, and choosing joy when circumstances gave me every reason not to. Following isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about trusting the One who does.

    Following Jesus is less about arriving somewhere and more about becoming someone.

    And here’s something I hope encourages you today: God isn’t asking you to become someone else. He’s inviting you to faithfully become who He created you to be.

    The question is, are we close enough to Jesus to follow where He leads?

    Friend, I don’t know where God is leading you next. Some days, I’m still asking Him the same question about my own journey.

    But maybe neither of us needs to know the whole road ahead.

    Maybe today we simply need to look toward Jesus and ask:

    Where are You leading me today?

    And when He shows us the next step, may we have the faith to take it.

    One faithful step at a time.

    Come on, friend. Let’s follow Him together.


    Reflection Questions

    1. Who or what has been influencing the direction of my life lately?
    2. Where is Jesus inviting me to trust Him instead of my own understanding?
    3. What is one faithful step I can take this week that reflects my desire to follow Him?

    Prayer

    Father, thank You for inviting me to walk with You. Forgive me for the times I’ve been more concerned about finding my purpose than faithfully following Your voice. Give me the courage to say yes to whatever You ask of me. Help me trust that Your plans are good and that obedience is always worth it. Today, I choose to follow You one faithful step at a time. Amen.

    Scripture for Meditation

    “My sheep hear My voice, I know them, and they follow Me.”

    — John 10:27


    Looking Ahead

    Next week, we’ll explore what it means to abide in Christ. Seeking begins the journey. Following moves our feet. But abiding teaches us that our greatest joy is not found in what we do for God—it’s found in remaining close to Him.

    With love and joy,

    Laura

  • Seek, Follow, Abide: Part 1 – What Are You Seeking?

    Seek, Follow, Abide: Part 1 – What Are You Seeking?

    “You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart.” — Jeremiah 29:13

    Over the next three weeks, we’ll journey together through a simple but life-changing question every follower of Christ must answer. We’ll explore what it means to seek Jesus, follow His calling, and abide in His presence. While these truths are closely connected, each deserves time to be prayerfully considered.

    This week, we begin with one question:

    What are you seeking?

    Jesus made a promise in Matthew 7:7:

    “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened to you.”

    Most of us know those words by heart. But have you ever stopped to consider what you’re actually seeking?

    The truth is, we always find what our hearts are pursuing.

    If we seek approval, we’ll spend our lives trying to please people.

    If we seek comfort, we’ll avoid anything that feels difficult.

    If we seek success, we’ll measure our worth by accomplishments that never fully satisfy.

    But when we seek Jesus, we discover something far greater than temporary fulfillment—we find the One who satisfies our souls.

    What we seek shapes the way we see the world.

    No one asks for difficult seasons. We naturally pray for healing, answers, and relief. Yet faith has a remarkable way of changing our perspective.

    Faith doesn’t deny the pain of a trial. Faith reminds us that God is still present within it.

    Sometimes the greatest blessing isn’t that the trial ends quickly. Sometimes it’s realizing that God is accomplishing something in us that could only happen through the struggle.

    James tells us to consider it pure joy when we face trials because they produce perseverance. That doesn’t mean we celebrate suffering. It means we trust that God is working even when we cannot yet see the outcome.

    It takes faith to recognize blessings that don’t arrive in the package we expected.

    The more we seek Christ, the more we begin looking for His fingerprints instead of focusing only on our problems.

    What Are You Looking For?

    Have you ever noticed that when you’re shopping for a particular vehicle, you suddenly see that same model everywhere?

    The cars were always there. You simply became aware of what you were looking for.

    The same principle applies spiritually.

    If you’re looking for reasons to doubt, you’ll probably find them.

    If you’re looking for reasons to complain, you’ll discover plenty.

    But if you’re seeking God’s presence, you’ll begin noticing His faithfulness in places you may have overlooked before.

    A conversation.

    An answered prayer.

    An unexpected opportunity.

    A quiet moment in His Word.

    A peace that doesn’t make sense.

    God’s presence often becomes most visible to those who intentionally seek Him.

    It’s easy to seek what God can do for us.

    We pray for wisdom.

    Strength.

    Healing.

    Provision.

    Direction.

    These are all good gifts from a loving Father.

    But God never intended for us to seek His hand more than His heart.

    His greatest gift has always been Himself.

    When we seek Jesus first, everything else begins to find its proper place. Our circumstances may not immediately change, but our perspective does. We begin to trust Him not only for what He provides, but because of who He is.

    That kind of faith anchors us when life becomes uncertain.

    This Week’s Invitation

    Don’t try to do everything at once.

    Simply…

    Seek Him.

    Next week, we’ll discover what it means to faithfully follow His call.

    With love and joy,

    Laura

    PS. Here is a prayer for your week as you seek Him…Heavenly Father, search my heart and reveal what I have been seeking. Forgive me for the times I have pursued comfort, approval, or success more than Your presence. Help me seek You with my whole heart and trust that You will meet me in every season. Open my eyes to see Your blessings, even in the midst of trials, and teach me to desire You above everything else. In Jesus’ name, Amen.